Appropriate Attire For Black-Tie Events
It’s always interesting to see how others interpret black tie. Granted, back in the day, the name was literally a formal translation. However, you don’t have to shy away from color any more … nor should you. You can even get away with more of a cocktail dress versus a long skirt or gown. But honestly, I have to draw the line at Lilly Pulitzer. Not that I have anything against Lilly Pulitzer. However, for a black-tie event, it’s just not appropriate.
I recently attended an event where half of the women got it right. Kudos to them. After all, how often do you have the opportunity to express yourself so formally. We all should take pride in it. The other half, well … I just had to shake my head. Summer dresses, both long and short, don’t count for black tie. Certainly appropriate for, let’s say, a steeple chase, pool party, picnic, evening get together with friends and dinner out.
The lines continued to get blurred with incoming trends. Don’t be fooled. Style is style. And my darling, you can follow rules with style. It’s called creativity. If you don’t want to wear the long black gown, by all means, don’t. But do consult with a professional if you have even an inkling of doubt. As the saying goes … it’s better to be over dressed than under dressed.
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I am so with you on this one. I completely agree that Lilly Pulitzer is NEVER black tie (or at least what I’ve seen of the line)!!! Black tie is pretty formal and does allow for some creativity within reason. And if you’re unsure, please do consult with a professional!!!