Wardrobe Essentials
If you are anything like I used to be, you hang onto clothes forever (and by that I mean, way past the expiration date). Part of it is the guilt factor – I paid for it, darn it, I am not going to get rid of it. The other part, sad but true, is that I think about when my children will have 90s or 00s day at school. Instant access to authentic vintage clothing! I know that is crazy…but platforms did come back in style last year and I had only to walk into my closet to hone in on the latest trend.
The real question we all should be asking ourselves - how much of what is hanging in my closet am I actually wearing? Let’s be realistic here, we need our wardrobes to work with us, not against us. We truly do end up wearing the same things over and over, so simplifying could be a good thing. Another good thing would be to learn how to pair different things together to get the most out of our wardrobes.
The first thing you need to do is develop your essentials wardrobe. This consists of quality pieces in your key neutrals (black, brown, white/off-white, olive, charcoal, navy). For example, everyone needs a pair or two (or three) of fabulous black pants that transcend season. Invest … these pieces should last a long time. Once you have inventoried your essentials, stand back and take a long, hard look at what is left. For most, the majority of what’s left in their closet are non-essentials. That might be why you are having a hard time coordinating outfits that work well for you and your body shape. Start purging items that no longer work by (1) consigning, (2) giving to good will, or (3) sharing the love by giving to a friend or family member.
Each season, add colorful and modern pieces to freshen up your style. This allows you to add in some trend, while grounded by your essentials. If you don’t know your color palette, reach out for help. Be smarter about your purchases. If you know you only look good in the Martin Fit pant, only buy Martin Fit pants. If you still can’t trust yourself, bring an honest friend with you. I have a friend that is brutally honest (I compare her to shopping with my mom). Her opinion is transparent by look within 2 seconds and by mouth within 3. Gotta love a good friend.
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